Raising the Bar for Love
The way that you think about love determines what you get. So when someone tells me, “I just want a nice man [or woman],” I ask them to increase their expectations. Just wanting a “nice man” can sniff of desperation and compromise. Love is not an arena that responds well to either. Settling is not necessary and won’t get your happy ending.
I recommend believing that you can have exactly what you want, a person who has the qualities that you desire and with whom you have crackling chemistry. Nothing less should do!
And even if there is no one in sight, even if you have disappointing dating experiences, this is no predictor of your future because you are not limited to your past. You can have high hopes for love, even when nothing is yet showing.
Upping Your Vibration: Here are some tips to raise your bar and pull yourself to the level of attracting your soulmate and nothing else
- Do anything you can to eradicate desperation and inspire hope in your heart
- Spend time every day imagining the person who would be right for you, how great your relationship will be, what they love about you and your life together
- Eradicate negative language from your dating vocabulary. No more: “dating sucks in this town,” “every woman in this town is a gold-digger,” “every man in this town is a player” or “I only attract losers.” Instead, say “I know my soulmate is on her way,” and don’t get negative when talking with friends about love
- While giving people a reasonable chance (because attraction tends to grow over time), feel free to say “no” to anything that is not right or feels like settling.This includes letting go of anyone from your past with whom you feel incomplete
- Be on the lookout for soulmates and happy couples as an example of what you can expect
When you notice you’re feeling down about love, keep this list to remind you of how to get beyond the negativity. Work on raising your sights, and you’ll be surprised how quickly love will happen as the Universe responds to your new energy!
Kathryn Alice, RScP teaches workshops all over the world on love. A licensed spiritual counselor, she led a crisis support team for six years. She is frequently published on this subject, and has led many to their love.
You Get Love: One-Day Workshop

Manifesting Your Soulmate Workshop
Facilitator: Avril Jason (RScP) (B.MSc)
A GREAT WAY TO RELEASE OLD LOVES, TO MANIFEST YOUR SOULMATE, AND TO MEET OTHER SINGLES!
The world is full of abundance and love, but too many people come to the fountain with sieves and teaspoons. Most likely because they’ve had disappointing love relationships. Or see a pattern to the partners in their lives – and that pattern is not a pretty one. Yet, deep inside, they all want to feel appreciated and loved by their One.
Using the methods I’m going to share with you in this workshop, you’ll be able to turn your love life around, and realise your wildest dreams of true love.
Join me for a day of fun, learning, and interaction where you’ll connect with other singles. Many marriages have resulted in this environment.
During the morning workshop you’ll learn to:
- Break barriers you have to love
- Manifest your SOULMATE
- Release your fears of being intimate or being hurt.
- Call forth love with a powerful meditation.
- Use the Law of Attraction to invite your SOULMATE to your door.
Letting go of a person can be the hardest release of all. During the afternoon session you’ll learn to dissolve your pain with this powerful process:
- Recover from a romantic attachment, breakup, or divorce
- Dissolve the pain of this attachment
- Finally get over this tie that holds you back
- Exercises, sharing, healing, and releasing time
- Release meditation for the person you’re letting go of
- Learn the tools to stay released
If you are truly serious about improving your love life, I’m ready and committed to helping you get there!
Day: 10 am – 4.30 pm
Dates: COMING SOON!
Course Fee: R450.00 (Including finger lunch)
Prerequisites: None
Manifesting Love (CD/Tape/Download)
Call forth your soulmate with the “Manifesting Love” CD, tape, or download
A Powerful Process to Love
This recording makes available for the first time the Manifesting Love workshop that has helped thousands to bring in their soulmates. It sets a powerful intention of opening up your life to the love you long for in your heart.
- Manifest your soulmate
- Break down barriers you have to accepting love in your life
- Release your fears of being close, of being hurt
- Call forth love with this powerful process
- Wisdom, tools and a guided meditation that is highly effective
- Bonus meditation for daily use
- Running time: 61:19
“Kathryn Alice walks the walk. She changes lives with her clear, intelligent message of love, inspiration and joy. You will be provided with practical and imaginative tools to date with fun and ease, until you meet your perfect match. I did!” Laura Summer
Tracks:
1. Introduction
2. A Lid for Every Pot
3. The Fatal Flaw
4. Who is My Soulmate?
5. What Can I Offer?
6. Releasing Old Loves
7. Q & A
8. Meditation Preparation
9. Guided Meditation
10. Manifesting Love Song featuring Jon Tompkins
11. The Final Track
12. Bonus Short Meditation
DO NOT WAIT to get this CD. The transformation of your love life happens very quickly. Kathryn’s workshops are much more than this, and private time with her is exorbitant, but for only $20 or less, you get the benefit of her powerful teaching and processes that you can listen to over and over to keep you in a good place.
Releasing a person (CD/Tape/Download)
Get over a breakup, divorce or romantic attachment with the ”Releasing a Person” CD, tape, or download
A Process That Will Heal Your Pain
This recording is based on the popular “Releasing a Person” workshop that thousands have used to recover from heartbreak. Many have also used it for a dating tool to break a painful attachment or get over someone with whom it’s not working out. Kathryn has even had people use this process to release someone who has died or a painful grudge or thought. It works the same way.
- Let go of a romantic attachment, a breakup, divorce or death
- Release the pain of this attachment
- Finally get over this tie that holds you back
- Find your true source and be free
- Conscious letting go of the person you’re releasing
- Wisdom, tools and a guided meditation that is highly effective
- Set yourself free and make sure that your field is completely clear for your soulmate
“I am releasing as I write! I loved your tape. I think you are amazing…thank you so much…you have given me hope again.” Susan Hartzler
“I feel 10 lbs lighter, my back is loosened, I feel free and ready for the new year, and the love of my life.” Ali Brown
This recording will do 3 things for you:
- Convince you that you need to release and that there’s no faking it. It will clue you into a little-known energy that can even attract the person you’re releasing.
- Take you through an actual release, a secret technology that Kathryn has used for years to miraculously heal people of heartbreak and able to go on to full-on love. It is a powerful process that people rave about afterwards. They can’t believe it works, but it does.
- Give you tools to continue releasing if necessary, tools that unlock a magical power in your life and that will serve you for the rest of your life.
Tracks include:
1. The Importance of Release and the Basics of Releasing
2. Three Tools for Releasing
3. Q & A
4. Prep for Guided Meditation
5. The Release: A Guided Meditation to Set You Free
Time with Kathryn is prohibitively expensive, and she rarely teaches this workshop LIVE any more. But getting your heart back and relieving your pain with this CD for only $20 is one of the best deals out there. Do yourself a favor and don’t delay stepping into freedom. You have love to experience, joy and fun to have so don’t spend another day moping around. Get this CD today!
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